It’s been a year since I found out I have stage IV breast
cancer that has spread to my bones.
I can’t believe it’s been that long. I go through good times and bad, or I guess depression. This last week I had a few bad
days. Those are days when I cry and
don’t handle things well. This
past week I’ve been struggling with the down side. I think getting a disabled parking
permit didn’t help.
When Chuck asked me to see about getting one I took the paperwork to my
Dr. thinking if she approved it she
would only approve it temporarily - meaning 6 months. But, she approved it permanently. That, I must admit, surprised me. It doesn’t expire until 2016.
I’ve been in a bit of a fog since that happened. I think I haven’t been accepting all of
what I’ve been told and know about my cancer. Of course
I know attitude, diet (sugar why can’t I hate you), etc. can
affect the outcome. How do people
get through something like this without knowing God and having a relationship
with Him? I don’t know how it is
possible.
I heard a sermon today about anxiety. I really needed to hear it. No matter what your circumstance you
need to trust God. Trust that He
is in control and knows what He is doing.
Trust that He can and will take care of you (me).
Don’t give in to anxiety.
· It leads to unwise decisions
· Steals joy and peace
· Wastes time and energy
· Can very negatively effect your health
I know these things but sometimes the reality of “living
with cancer”
hits hard.
I met a nurse the other day who told me radiation can mess
up your heart.
She also told me if she got breast cancer again she wouldn’t
do anything about it. I asked her
what she meant by anything and she said, no treatment, surgery, nothing. That surprised me. She said she didn’t want to go through
all of it again. She had stage I. But, she also said that now cancer doesn't kill people like it used to they just live with it like people live with diabetes or other diseases that don't go away.
I wish I could just stop going through all of it.
Tomorrow I get another Xgeva shot. This seems to be causing a lot of pain and I would really
like to skip it. But the Dr. said
it takes 3 – 4 shots before it even begins to work so tomorrow’s number 4. We’ll see what happens.
Here’s the sermon notes from today:
By Dr. Charles Stanley
Key Scripture: Philippians 4:4-7
I. Introduction: Emotions greatly influence how we live our lives. They
are a gift from God, provided so we can enjoy life and relate to others, but
how we express them determines whether they are beneficial or detrimental.
Either we control them, or they control us.
Anxiety
is the most prominent emotion people are experiencing today. It’s
important to realize that feeling anxious is not a sin, but the Lord doesn’t
want us to live in a continual state of dread because of life’s uncertainties.
It’s important to understand what we should do with anxiety and how long we let
it control us.
II. What is anxiety?
A. In the New Testament, the
word anxiety means, “to be distracted or pulled apart.” This is the
opposite of peace, which means, “to be bound together.”
B. It can also be defined as “dread,
apprehension, and uncertainty” and can be caused by past events, a present
situation, or future possibilities.
C. Sometimes, anxiety is a fear
of not being in control or of feeling vulnerable.
III. What are the sources of anxiety? First of all, know that God
is not the creator of anxiety and that worry doesn’t fit our identity as
followers of Christ. Instead, we should trust God (Matt. 6:25-26).
It’s important to know there are:
A. Legitimate
causes.
Some things are just naturally going to create anxiety. For example, if you
didn’t study for an exam, you have reason to be nervous.
B.
Inappropriate reasons. At other times, our worries are caused when we feel we might
not get what we want. It could be some possession or a relationship we want,
even if we know it’s not right.
C.
Unacknowledged issues. When we don’t deal with the cause of our anxiety, it takes up
long-term residence within us, causing all sorts of emotional and physical
problems. This is not the way God wants His children to live.
IV. Why should we avoid anxiety?
A. It isn’t
scriptural.
In one passage alone, Jesus said, “Do not be anxious” three times (Matt. 6:25-34).
He explained that it is unnecessary because the Father will provide what we
need. We simply can’t accept a lifestyle of anxiety when Jesus is our Prince of
Peace.
B. Anxiety
has a negative effect on every area of our lives because it:
1. Divides
our minds.
Apprehension pulls us in two different directions, making it hard to focus on
important matters.
2. Slows down
our productivity. Because we are distracted with worry, we can’t give anything
else our best efforts.
3. Affects
our personal relationships with others. It’s hard to keep our anxieties to ourselves. When we’re
filled with fear, we burden those around us.
4. Leads to
unwise decisions. Those who are overly concerned about the future are prone to
make hasty decisions to stop feeling uncertain.
5. Steals our
joy and peace.
It’s impossible for us to be fretful and peaceful at the same time.
6. Proves to
be a terrible waste of time and energy. Uncertainty, frustration, and worry are exhausting and
achieve nothing and can even have a devastating effect on our health.
V. What is the correct way to deal with anxiety? With so much at stake, it’s
foolish to give in to anxiety or seek quick, temporary relief. Instead of
worrying, you should:
A. Bring your
worries to God.
Whatever is troubling you is a matter for prayer. The first step to freedom is
confessing your fears to the Lord rather than let them rule you (Acts 18:9-10).
B. Come to
the Lord with an attitude of thanksgiving. In the midst of your apprehension, you may not feel
grateful, but when you think about God’s loving involvement in your life, you
can’t help but praise Him (Phil: 4:6-7).
C. Come with
a threefold conviction. Remember the Lord loves you unconditionally and wants the best
for you. Also, He has the desire and power to help, so you can
expect Him to do just that.
D. Recognize
that anxiety is a faith battle.We must believe that God will replace our anxieties. If
we surrender our concerns into His hands, we can have His amazing peace—even if
all hell breaks loose around us.
VI.
Conclusion: As
great as all these promises are, they will not be yours if you give Christ your
worries with one hand and take them back with the other. True freedom is only
possible when we finally admit that a burden is too heavy to carry. Remember,
no one has to live in anxiety; it’s a choice. Freedom and peace await those who
give their worries to God and leave them in His hands.
You
can also listen to the sermon here - http://www.intouch.org/broadcast/this-week-on-tv
